E36: Alarm and Fog light Questions

["John Nevius" <john_nevius@xxxxxxxxxxx>]

     Greeetings,
     
     Again my apologies if these have already been asked multiple times:
     
     1)  The E36:FAQ describes removing the wire on terminal 4 of relay K47 
     and then grounding pin 4 to allow the high beams and the fog lights to 
     operate at the same time.  I cannot find a reference to where relay 
     K47 phsically is or how it might be identified.
     
     Can someone give me a roadmap please?
     
     2)  I'm installing an aftermarket alarm system.  (thanks for 
     everyone's advice!!).  I'd like to re-route the wire from the OBC 
     "CODE" function to the alarm.
     
     Can someone give me a wire color code and/or connector pinout please?
     
     
     3)  If I had a wiring diagram, I wouldn't need to ask these 
     semi-stupid questions.  Where can I find/purchase one  ('95 325i 
     sedan).
     
     
     
     Multiple and profuse thank-you's in advance!!!
     
     
     John Nevius

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